6 ideas for your first roleplaying scenario

Role-playing can be a wonderful addition to any relationship! If you’re just getting into the role-playing scene it can be intimidating to figure out where to start but that’s where we come in! We have six beginner-friendly role-playing ideas for you to test out! As with everything, make sure everyone involved is on board with the role-playing scenario and create a safe word to ensure everyone’s comfort. 1. A Handyman and A ...

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First time with a woman

Your first time with a woman

The first time you have sex with another woman can seem a bit intimidating. It might be the first time you have sex ever, or it might be the first time you are having sex with someone that is not a man. Even if it is not your first time having sex, it can still feel like it. We have some tips to help guide you through your first time having ...

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Funniest podcasts

Top 5 funniest podcasts about sex

For International Podcast Day we wanted to celebrate the podcasts that might not make it to the more G-rated lists. On September 30th, there will be an international celebration of podcasts, with the goal of connecting with new podcasts, podcast listeners and creators, and overall podcast enthusiasts. For us, that includes podcasts that have something to do with sex! So here are the top five funniest podcasts about sex for ...

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Books about sex

6 must- read books about sex

It is so important to continue to educate ourselves and learn new things every day. When it comes to sex and sexuality, it is no different! In fact, it might be one of the more important topics to educate ourselves about because there is so much misinformation out there! If you are looking for a quality read or six, check out these books that are super educational, super inclusive, and ...

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The importance of aftercare

The term “aftercare” is well known to the BDSM community but it should be something that extends to any kind of sexual styles and sexual activities. Aftercare is quite simply taking care of your partner and yourself after sex. It’s about taking the time to check in with your partner, talk to them, cuddle, or other similar aftercare practices. Aftercare makes sex better for everyone. Here’s why aftercare is important as well ...

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Sexual intimacy

5 ways to increase sexual intimacy

Did you know that intimacy can lead to a more positive mood and a greater sense of meaning in life? A study involving 152 American college students showed the relationship between intimate sex and increased positive feelings the very next day. The study showed that the intimacy of the relationship was a more important determining factor than just sex itself! So how do you increase sexual intimacy? Here are 5 ways ...

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Naked couple talking in bed

6 reasons to talk about sex

I have always loved talking about sex. It’s just one of those things that I felt needed to be out in the open. My male friends were all able to openly talk about it, so I said “screw it” and started talking about it too. I wanted to do my part in normalizing the female experience of sexual encounters. I love how talking about sex breaks down so many barriers to ...

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Sex on your period

9 tips to have sex on your period

Let’s start this article off by saying that there is nothing wrong with having sex on your period, and that period blood is not “dirty” or “gross.” Now that we have gotten that out of the way… period sex can actually be really enjoyable. Different hormones are happening, different parts of your body are more sensitive, and there is an added natural lubrication. Sex while menstruating can even help relieve ...

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Girls having sex

The hottest tv shows of all times

After a long day at the beach it is time for a cold shower and something hot on a screen! Check out the steamy show on our list! 1. Orange is the New Black Of course this one had to be the first on the list. OITNB was the show that helped skyrocket Netflix. Not only did OITNB show major diversity, it also showed lesbian relationships… including quite a few sex scenes. While the ...

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Avoid cheating on your partner

How to avoid cheating on your partner

Sometimes it seems like everyone is always cheating on everyone else. Single friends hook up with married people, married friends hook up with different people, celebrities break up relationships or work through it… it’s everywhere! Just because it seems to be everywhere, still doesn’t make it right! If you’re tempted to cheat, or if you have a history of cheating, check out this list for ways to avoid it in ...

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