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Changing Roles: Gender Play in the Bedroom

In a 1918 publication of infants clothing it was suggested that boys wear pink and girls wear blue. This being because “pink, being a more decided and stronger color, is more suitable for the boy, while blue, which is more delicate and dainty, is prettier for the girl.” In the above description we learn two crucial things. One: Gender identity is fluid and changes from one generation, society, and culture to ...

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Master of the Cane: Impact Play and Its Appeal

After a cheeky remark, a mischievous glint shot across the eyes of Jody’s playmate which made their genitals twinge with delight and their heart beat just a little faster. Already anticipating what was to come and eager to please, Jody bent themselves forward on to the side of the bed and presented their bare and exposed posterior. A hand stroked the surface of their left cheek caringly, sending a tingle down their spine before suddenly, ...

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Why women cheat

The other day, I had a conversation with a friend about how men are portrayed to cheat on their partners way more often than women. My friend had just discovered one of her friends had been cheated on, and had gone on a little rant about how men are less faithful than women. In my experience, monogamous men and women are equally unfaithful to their partners (and there’s even a study ...

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What Vaping Does for Your Sexlife

Does vaping make you a better lover as opposed to lighting up a cigarette? And what about fetishes? Vaping Vaping is now an international phenomenon and with very good reason. Governments have been vocal in highlighting the fact that vaping is 95% less detrimental than smoking a cigarette or other methods of nicotine intake. Studies looking at the potential damage of vaping have always been done in extreme conditions ...

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MILF Fantasies Are So Popular, why ?

The UK just celebrated Mothering Sunday – a nation-wide day of letting your mum know just how much you love them. But, if porn sites are anything to go off of, a lot of other people just might love your mother too…read more about MILF Fantasies. The MILF The idea of the MILF (or Mom I’d Like To Fuck) has been a persistent one in erotic fiction, pornography, and personal fantasies for many, many ...

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Valentine’s Day

Is Valentine’s Day still worth celebrating?

Valentine's Day comes annually with signals of inflatable love heart balloons, saccharine cuddy toy displays, and chocolates that are overpriced and likely not very good for you. The History of Valentine’s Day St. Valentine of Terni was martyred in 269 C.E. and although the 69 seems oddly appropriate the real history of Valentine’s is anything but romantic. This Roman priest was violently beaten, stoned and then had his head freed from his ...

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Sex Education

Why you should totally watch SEX EDUCATION

We have a new favourite show on Netflix! It’s called “Sex Education” and it is so good you won’t want it to end. While the title might be a bit misleading, it is not in fact, a formal education video series. Instead, it is about a teenage boy with a sex therapist mother that starts running his own underground sex therapy clinic… even though he’s never had sex. In fact, he’s ...

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The appeal of red hair

The appeal of red hair

In fact, all tones of ginger are now celebrated during the annual Kiss A Ginger Day celebrations on January 12th – meant to replace the old schoolboy tradition of Kick A Ginger Day, which takes place in November (red-heads beware). Kissing someone with ginger hair is something we can definitely get behind, especially given the innate allure of many red-headed individuals. But what is it about red hair that drives many people ...

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Christmas Dates

7 ways to find a date during the holidays

‘Tis the season for coupling up! It might be all the cheesy Christmas movies, the promises of warm fireplaces in chalets, or the need to add a little excitement to the day because the sun sets so damn early. No one says you have to date the person forever – you can just have a little holiday fun! Whatever your reason for wanting a date during the holidays, we have ...

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A-sexuality: the 101

The scene starts. The eyes of two individuals lock intensely. They move closer together and, stroking each other’s skin as a light primer, begin to engage in an intimate dance of passion and pure sexual tension. Yet as you look on at the intertwined flesh on display you see simply that; two bodies engaging in sexual activity. Yes, you understand what it’s meant to be (and the feelings it’s meant to elicit inside ...

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