Dating after 40

Dating in your 40s doesn’t have to be miserable and complicated. It can actually be really fun and successful! Not sure where to start? Here are some helpful tips for dating in your 40s! # 1 Dating Happens Online The dating world is definitely online. It’s always possible to meet people at an activity or through a friend, but more often than not, you will experience some online dating while looking for ...

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If your partner faces discrimination

Recently we have seen a double whammy of discrimination left right and center in Western media. Not only was American tennis player Serena Williams held to standards that have widely been considered sexist by an umpire at the US Open final but the incident was then depicted in a racist light by an Australian publication. Seeing something like this is always a huge disappointment in our modern society but it’s also ...

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Paying for sex

It is totally normal for you to feel a bit nervous before hiring your first escort or sex worker. There is a lot of stigma associated with paying for sex, which means there isn’t very much information available about what to do and what to not do when hiring an escort or sex worker. We have a few tips for you if you’re planning on paying for sex or any ...

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Redefining pleasure after bodily transformation

Weight fluctuations, gender variations, severe injury or illness, or an extreme change in personal presentation. All of these can technically be counted as ‘Bodily Transformations’ and all of them come with their own individual issues, niches, and considerations. However, in all cases it can generally be agreed that when confronted with extreme change, even if it’s voluntary, the mind can often struggle with regaining a sense of sexual pleasure that seems ...

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6 ideas for your first roleplaying scenario

Role-playing can be a wonderful addition to any relationship! If you’re just getting into the role-playing scene it can be intimidating to figure out where to start but that’s where we come in! We have six beginner-friendly role-playing ideas for you to test out! As with everything, make sure everyone involved is on board with the role-playing scenario and create a safe word to ensure everyone’s comfort. 1. A Handyman and A ...

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Your first time with a woman

The first time you have sex with another woman can seem a bit intimidating. It might be the first time you have sex ever, or it might be the first time you are having sex with someone that is not a man. Even if it is not your first time having sex, it can still feel like it. We have some tips to help guide you through your first time having ...

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Top 5 funniest podcasts about sex

For International Podcast Day we wanted to celebrate the podcasts that might not make it to the more G-rated lists. On September 30th, there will be an international celebration of podcasts, with the goal of connecting with new podcasts, podcast listeners and creators, and overall podcast enthusiasts. For us, that includes podcasts that have something to do with sex! So here are the top five funniest podcasts about sex for ...

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6 must- read books about sex

It is so important to continue to educate ourselves and learn new things every day. When it comes to sex and sexuality, it is no different! In fact, it might be one of the more important topics to educate ourselves about because there is so much misinformation out there! If you are looking for a quality read or six, check out these books that are super educational, super inclusive, and ...

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How to create a successful dating profile

So you’ve looked in to the idea of online dating and you’re intrigued, but how is the best way to go about it? Online dating is just as diverse and varied as dating through other methods which means that, much like dating in person, it can be a bit of a confusing mess to navigate. Because of this we thought we’d offer some of our top tips for how to manage and ...

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Is online dating actually worth it?

There was once a time where the notion of meeting someone online seemed quirky at best and dangerous at worst. Back when the net was just emerging the idea that ‘anyone’ could be behind the screen was a real fear and, if we’re honest, the same is very much true now. The Catfish documentary and show exist for a reason, after all. Buut, let’s face it; that show is kind of ‘old ...

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