The importance of aftercare

The term “aftercare” is well known to the BDSM community but it should be something that extends to any kind of sexual styles and sexual activities. Aftercare is quite simply taking care of your partner and yourself after sex. It’s about taking the time to check in with your partner, talk to them, cuddle, or other similar aftercare practices. Aftercare makes sex better for everyone. Here’s why aftercare is important as well ...

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How to regain trust after infidelity

It’s a fact – people who have cheated once are 350% more likely to cheat again in their lifetime. That’s not exactly what you want to hear right now but it is the unfortunate truth. It’s also why so many people struggle to trust their partners after an incident of cheating. However, although we’d often like to attribute cheating to one particular mind set, or to suggest flippantly ‘Once a cheater, always a ...

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5 ways to increase sexual intimacy

Did you know that intimacy can lead to a more positive mood and a greater sense of meaning in life? A study involving 152 American college students showed the relationship between intimate sex and increased positive feelings the very next day. The study showed that the intimacy of the relationship was a more important determining factor than just sex itself! So how do you increase sexual intimacy? Here are 5 ways ...

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6 reasons to talk about sex

I have always loved talking about sex. It’s just one of those things that I felt needed to be out in the open. My male friends were all able to openly talk about it, so I said “screw it” and started talking about it too. I wanted to do my part in normalizing the female experience of sexual encounters. I love how talking about sex breaks down so many barriers to ...

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The sexual allure of clowns

When the reimagining of Stephen King’s cult classic book IT was remade for a modern audience back in 2017 it didn’t take long for something rather specific to happen on the world wide web. That thing, of course, being the release of copious amounts of smut. Contrary to what many individuals might have concluded after seeing Bill Skarsguård’s latest rendition of the ever antagonistic Pennywise (who is actually a giant female intergalactic ...

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9 tips to have sex on your period

Let’s start this article off by saying that there is nothing wrong with having sex on your period, and that period blood is not “dirty” or “gross.” Now that we have gotten that out of the way… period sex can actually be really enjoyable. Different hormones are happening, different parts of your body are more sensitive, and there is an added natural lubrication. Sex while menstruating can even help relieve ...

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Discussing sexuality in a new relationship

Our language and attitude about sexuality is constantly evolving and changing over time. Where once certain sexual orientations were considered so unacceptable that they were illegal (something which we think is the truly unacceptable act) many people now feel more confident and capable when it comes to exploring and asserting their sexuality in the world. And, naturally, this relates to relationships too. Isn’t It Obvious? Our previous approach to sexuality in the Western world ...

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How to prepare for your first single holiday

Holidays are fantastic. Sun, sand and sea, or perhaps a city with loads of culture, or even frozen glaciers and ice hotels. The possibilities are absolutely endless and many amazing memories are forged on a holiday. But the thing about those memories and experiences is that they’re typically shared with someone else. For most individuals holidays start as a family affair before eventually becoming a recreational activity with friends or a partner ...

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How to avoid cheating on your partner

Sometimes it seems like everyone is always cheating on everyone else. Single friends hook up with married people, married friends hook up with different people, celebrities break up relationships or work through it… it’s everywhere! Just because it seems to be everywhere, still doesn’t make it right! If you’re tempted to cheat, or if you have a history of cheating, check out this list for ways to avoid it in ...

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Sex and Social Media

Unsolicited dick pics are about as far away as you can get from okay as will ever be the case. The same goes for unsolicited nudes too. Putting this aside, though, there are many times in our sexual adventures or relationships where we will be feeling amorous, glamorous, and ready to show our sexy selves to consenting individuals. In such cases, social media is usually involved. Getting Social Social media is such a ubiquitous ...

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