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MILF Fantasies Are So Popular, why ?

The UK just celebrated Mothering Sunday – a nation-wide day of letting your mum know just how much you love them.

But, if porn sites are anything to go off of, a lot of other people just might love your mother too…read more about MILF Fantasies.

The MILF

The idea of the MILF (or Mom I’d Like To Fuck) has been a persistent one in erotic fiction, pornography, and personal fantasies for many, many years.

Pop ‘MILF’ in to Google and you’ll get over 965,000,000 results.

That’s a heck of a lot of individuals sharing a fantasy about getting intimate with a sexy mother figure.

‘Stifler’s Mom’

American Pie served a large part in popularizing this iconic figure. Jennifer Coolidge played the unendingly desirable ‘Stifler’s Mom’ whom Paul Finch idolized along with most of Stifler’s friends. Every time she came on screen a saxophone was sure to follow alongside a few sultry looks and likely an approving nod from male and female viewers alike.

Everybody is hot for Stiflers Mom!

But why is there such an interest in the MILF?

Why, for that matter, are Doms so often referred to as ‘Daddy’?

It’s time to look a little deeper in to the parent fantasy, what it might represent and where the boundaries are.

The Psychology Behind ‘The Parent’

Why do people love parent fantasies so much?

While our attraction to our parents might be enough to give Freud wet dreams psychology suggests that it’s much less to do with wanting to be with our own parents and much more to do with the qualities that we attach to parents and parenthood.

Sexual desire

The thing about sexual fantasies is just that -they’re a fantasy – and in fantasies we often ditch many of the undesirable aspects of something and strip it down to its idealised form.

And when it comes to parent figures there are a fair few things that play easily in to sexual desire.

Some of the most common reasons why people (especially younger males and those in BDSM fantasies) value a stern MILF or matron or a strict Daddy is because of the following traits:

Experience:

There is a stereotype around parental figures that they have a lot of experience, life wise and *ahem* in other aspects too. The idea of experience appeals to many people because it beckons a sense of discovery. The idea that we might be given an education in sexual pleasure from someone with years of wisdom is a great allure.

Maturity:

Equally, those who are parent figures often give off a sense of maturity and confidence which taps in to our primary tribal brain. People like to be around those who have a sense of certainty and authority about them.

Such people allow us to relinquish our own control and simply enjoy the ride. If a person in a MILF dynamic wants to be playful and immature they can trust the MILF to know what to do and take charge of the situation with both experience and maturity.

Responsibility & Honesty:

We trust our own parents and we expect that they will take responsibility in a situation. This confers a certain sense of safety which allows us to be at ease. The same is true in sexual situations. Trust is so fundamental to sexual experiences that the idea of being with someone who is transparent, responsible, and full of integrity is an immediate turn on.

Security & Comfort:

As much as we might deny it and scream for our independence in every day life, many of us want to have someone else take care of us from time-to-time. Giving in to a parent figure is the ultimate embodiment of this. Parents represent, for many people, a sense of security and innate comfort which is highly reassuring.

Confiding in a parental figure feels like a release rather than something to fear judgement from. The sexual parent figure offers this sense of protectiveness which is essential for so many people, especially in a BDSM setting.

Authority:

Having said that parents can punish and scold us and this appeals to many people too, especially those who like humiliation submission. The idea that you might be able to tease or frustrate a parent figure in to receiving ‘punishment’ is quite a common fantasy among the MILF and Daddy movements and makes up a large part of their appeal.

The Boundaries

Of course, in all of these instances it’s important to highlight, yet again, that all of this is fantasy and fantasy roleplay and that very few individuals actually want to engage in sex with their actual parents.

Present a MILF lover with a photo of a hot mature lady and their jaw will drop.

Show them their own mum in the same pose and they’ll likely avert their eyes rapidly.

Daddy appeal

Knowing this distinctive difference is crucial to understanding the MILF and Daddy appeal.

Yes, we may all want to be taken care of, told what to do, and maybe even punished from time to time but such desires are always done in consentual, fantasy situations which don’t involve actual relatives.

So, if you’ve ever gawked at Stifler’s Mom yourself then why not give a little parent roleplay a try yourself? You might just be surprised with where it takes you.

Ofcourse we can help you set the mood with our hot MILF videos on DUSK.

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